A year ago today, Bill left his broken body behind. I had the honor to say a few words at his memorial, here is my notes:
Hi, everyone, thank you for being here to remember Bill. I was asked to say something but I have the habit of turning a toast into a roast. You know just about now Bill would turn and look at me with his side way look and say “ my buddy George!”
I met Bill in the early month of 1990, it was a snowy afternoon and Bill was the only person in the shop. He did the barbed wire, or BOB WIRE as we call it, around my first tattoo, and it did not hurt as bad as the first one I got in Colorado. That was the beginning of our friendship. He bought the shop from Steve and began the era of Black Dragon Tattoo.
I was being trained along with Nancy at the time, and times were tough for him at times to make things work. I am forever thankful that he trained me the old fashion way because it is important to be HUNGRY ENOUGH and I was lucky to hear that ARE YOU HUNGRY ENOUGH speech many many times.
Bill also taught me how to golf, and we had some interesting stories regarding GOLF THE RIDE as we slip and slide the golf cart on wet grass. AVON LADY HOLES while we slice balls to people's front yard. We golf in pouring rain, putting with an inch of water on the green, and laugh about it in the clubhouse after the 18 hole of aerobic work out. Thanks to me, he was also able to total one golf cart and took an unexpected swim in the muddy swamp. After all, I am his buddy George.
Even though the legend is true that people see my bike as often as BIG FOOT sighting, we had some fun rides and I will forever looking for him in front of me as the lead. You know he can ride his bike and hold on to a sleeping Nancy on his back in the same time. That was the night Nancy decided she is going to have 5 drinks, all because she wondered how can anyone drink that much; she did not get that far.
Bill was in Viet Nam and he is a true patriot. He is proud of his service and he made his journey to see the WALL in D.C. as one of his many things to do. I will never forget how he advice people on how a war can scar a young mind and one shall never trade certain part of humanity for anything. I know where his passion lies and I do share his philosophy.
Bill was a chef in Colorado. If you are lucky enough to be around him, you will have tails of his many gourmet meals he prepared. He loved life and the finer things in life. Except his wife does not have anything to wear nor any shoes so he was not able to go to one of his favorite restaurants all the time.
Bill was a hunter, but he never did have the heart to shoot that buck; we often give him grief that he went on many hunting trips but never a deer. He just enjoy being outdoor, and the friendship. It is the journey that counts, not the result.
Bill was also a big sports fan, but we, when I say we I mean I, gave him the rap of being a jinx. He has the power to turn on the radio and bad things will happen. I am happy to report that Rachel, my wife, asked him few nights ago for a BIG HIT at the bottom of the tenth, and Ryan Braun hit a walk off grand slam.
Bill touched a lot of people, no pun intended. Some of us have wonderful art works he left on us for years to come. I think that is the mark he left for this world, not on a big scale but to many many people individually. I remember one morning that he was really touched by a customer's story for a memorial tattoo, and his eyes were actually red and his feeling was genuine. That is our Bill.
Bill loves his girl Zena and many present and past members of the animal pack. I am sure he is reunited with them right now and hugging big boy Thor, Zoey, and Reggie and Guido is humping his leg.
Bill loved his family, he'd always told Nancy how much he love her and gave her kisses, and everything surround the shop was his extended family. He loved to talk to people, and he cared about people. I think it is evident that all of you are here today. Because of Bill, we have a chance to share this moment in time. I can think of the time we walk down the fairway early in the morning and the cranes flying by, or when after a long day of work, he would actually thank me, but those are the memories for me. You all do have some of those memories too and that is the part of Bill that you will all have for the rest of your lives to treasure.
Bill was a Taoist, so am I. For a Taoist the life and death is like the changing of the season and it is just the way it is. When we are sad, we cry, but when we are happy, we sing and rejoice. It does not mean we do not mourn him, we are just celebrating his life. He lived life his way, and he accomplished much and experienced much, that is all we can ask for sometime.
Here is to my mentor, my friend, my buddy Bill.
(toast)